It has been quite awhile since I posted
here. I confess I was becoming bored with it and figured if I was
getting bored, I might be boring as well! (except to my mom who
always says it's interesting, but – she's my mom!) So I've been
thinking....
Hubby has loads of Wildflowers in this planter... |
When I began this blog we were moving,
retiring and getting all of that going. We were going to have
chickens, and a huge garden, live simply, make do, de-clutter, be
prepared for emergencies do a lot of crafting and hand-making of
things. We had visions of travel, and spending time together and
with family.
The honeysuckle recovered from pruning |
That was 2011 - seven years later, I am
working full time, hubby is working hard on the home front, none of
the kids moved with us, we have no chickens, the garden is huge but I
don't care this summer, work is sapping my energy and we're eating too
much processed food because it's “quick and easy”. I spent a
good part of spring rethinking not only this blog but where we had
gotten to – and where we were going. Hubby and I were both ready
for some 'sit down and think about what we are doing' time.
Great grandma and Miss Lily at a tea party! |
-I am going to apply for my Social
Security benefits this fall and really retire within a few months of
that time, I will train someone if they get someone, but I will not
let them dictate my leaving date.
-We are going to be open to the idea of
moving a little farther out of the 'population' areas here. We live
in the fastest growing area in the country right now and this was not
our goal either. We won't put our house on the market or anything
but we are going to research and try to find an area that will suit
our new needs and wants. We will pray and see if doors open or close!
We neither one ate any cake!! |
-We are making a real effort to get our
eating habits under control. I have researched and we have decided
on a 'lifestyle' rather than a diet. We may not lose weight but the
goal is healthier, not skinny!
-I am hoping that I can add a few
things to this blog as well, perhaps the occasional book review, more
recipes, travel photos, even some connections to my genealogy blog
now and then. We shall see.
Mom got to have kids, grands and the great grand for Mothers Day! |
All 3 of our boys at one time...and Lily |
Thank you to each of you who reads and
kind of hangs with me, it really does feel like we are friends and I
appreciate you!! Onward and (hopefully) Upwards...
Alaska sounds fun!
ReplyDeleteI know, I'm excited!
DeleteI always enjoy your posts Kathy - they're always thoughtful, interesting and feel very real - so I don't think you should worry about boredom on the part of your readers. But I recognise what you say about needing to flow with the shifting seasons of life and sometimes blog-writing fits with that and sometimes it doesn't. It's funny how we make plans and everything seems set for going in one direction and then all of a sudden the goal posts change and we find ourselves travelling the opposite way. I've found that this year too. And like you, what I thought was going to be retirement has been short-lived and I am now back at work, with less time than ever, it seems. I find your decision to take stock, reassess and reset your goals wonderfully encouraging, actually. It's easy to feel caught up in a tide that one has no control over and while that's true as far as the simple process of ageing goes, your rethink is a reminder that there are still plenty of ways to choose how life gets lived. Go for it, Kathy and do keep writing as and when you feel like it - I shall look forward to catching up with how things go. Have a lovely weekend! E x
ReplyDeleteThank you!
DeleteHi! Good luck to you. We traveled in a fifth wheel after hubby retired, then settled in a house near our daughter and ow we have moved to a community that does the yard work for us Hubby has neuropathy and I have bad fatigue from a parathyroid dr. says and celiac. We sure did enjoy those years when we were younger and hope you do also! I have a blog and a little courtyard to garden in. Nancy
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